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By Karl Ayling, Sep 29 2017 08:22PM

During early winter this year, a friend at church was giving away some sunflower seeds, mainly to the children and young people. I spotted an opportunity to try to cultivate one so with permission, I picked up three of the seeds and planted them into a small pot.

A few weeks went by and a couple of shoots began to show themselves - two of the three had started to grow. After another couple of weeks around Easter time they were big enough to plant into the garden.

I chose a spot in between the potatoes and the green beans. At first they competed with each other in reaching for the sky - being well fed and watered, I thought they were doing well.

Then one morning, I went out to inspect their growth progress and one had been broken in half and was no longer viable (maybe a bird had walked past or tried to eat it).

The last remaining sunflower was all alone with my hopes for it hinging on my expectation that I would at least see it get to a few feet high and maybe produce one head for the coming summer.


How Wrong Can You Be?

Other than regular tomato feed and watering it when I watered the rest of the veg patch this sunflower was left to reach its own potential.

The eagle eyed among you will have noticed a picture posted along with this blog.

At the time of writing and after much social media mirth at my regular progress updates, this sunflower grown from a single seed (the last survivor) now stands a magnificent six feet over my six foot fence.

It has 35 heads in various stages of development with more to come. Truly a magnificent specimen of its kind - people are asking me to save the seeds for them.

Its potential was locked away dormant for months awaiting an opportunity to bloom. How many of us can say the same thing of our lives? Not much in the early days, but, just as it says in the Bible, the end of a matter is better than the beginning (Ecc 7 v8)

Further than this analogy, though I think there is also a lesson here in the nature of choice.


Choosing vs Deciding

Notice that in the opening paragraph of this blog I chose to be a little cheeky and ask my friend for some of the sunflower seeds. Examples of the fruit of this choice appear throughout. What is the difference between a choice and a decision? Life.

One is life giving (and of light) and one is death giving and of the dark.


Let me explain.

The word, decide belongs to a family of words that in their earliest use come from the Greek and mean to kill off. For example, matricide, patricide, infanticide, genocide - and decide.

By making a decision we are killing off the option in ontological language of selecting anything else. yet, by simply choosing to make a choice, as I did in cultivating the sunflower seed or choosing to be a caring, sharing loving husband, father, person I can hold myself to account, be responsible for my actions (choices) and endeavour to learn and move forward intentionally.

In the Message Bible and in the Book of Proverbs, the introduction exalts us to embrace wisdom, to live skillfully to cultivate emotions and attitudes within us that make for peace. It challenges us to live with a robust sanity.

Part of how we can do this is in the use of language and the active comprehending and understanding of it in the here and now of the present where peace, love and joy reside.

Bye for now

God bless

Karl

By Karl Ayling, Jul 19 2017 08:23PM

All war is pointless and a recent one, the Vietnam war was completely meaningless (opium anyone) Today the US has around 2 million addicts.


Americans Have Been Addicted to Prescription Opiates Forever


A new set of CDC recommendations try to strike a balance between neglecting pain and prescribing addiction.


The world's most powerful nation couldn't subdue tiny Vietnam. And, all subsequent conflicts that have utilised western military capacity have been at best, inconclusive and at worst a sign of western global corruption. Prior to WWII there was a greater societal affinity to faith, family and religion the exponential decline of which has seen an explosion of alternative beliefs such as humanism, spiritism and individualism. Globalisation knew no bounds, until fairly recently, when the Brexit vote, turmoil in southern Europe and the election of a non-politician as President are but some of the indicators that the western electorate may want more change, more quickly than the establishment can cede.


Religious affiliation has been in steep decline in the western world especially western Europe and north America. At the same time there is significant growth in other parts of the world. Islam is expected to become the world's largest religion by 2075, and Christianity is booming in sub-Saharan Africa, Latin America and China.


In the UK a watershed in national life has been reached. For the first time in recorded history, those declaring themselves to have no religion have exceeded the number of Christians in Britain. Some 44 per cent of the population consider themselves a Christian, 8 per cent follow another religion and 48 per cent follow none. The decline of Christianity is perhaps the biggest single change in Britain over the past century. For some time, it has been a stretch to describe Britain as a Christian country. We can more accurately be described now as a secular nation with fading Christian institutions. Thanks to The Guardian survey.


So what if anything has filled the gap?


I started to have a little dig around as I suspected that Islam has partly filled the void and found that the first Mosque built in the UK was in leafy Woking in Surrey in 1889 – even more surprising is that it was built by a Jew. Here's a link that contains some more detail;


http://www.shahjahanmosque.org.uk/about-shah-jahan-mosque


The Shah Jahan Mosque, was built in 1889 by Dr Gottleib Wilhelm Leitner. From my research it was the first mosque to be built in the western world – UK, Northern Europe or North America. The mosque is situated on Oriental Road in Woking, about three quarters of a mile from the railway station and town centre.


Today the mosque has the honour of being listed as a historical Grade 2 listed building.


Another driving force in the general rise of secularisation the embrace of the cult of individualism is the break-up of the traditional family isolating particularly young people and the elderly. For a couple of generations young people have tended not to want to take up their parents religiosity and I believe that it is this that has led to the explosion of humanistic thinking which barely acknowledges anything spiritual. The evidence of the wide spread use of narcotics in the western world seems to me to point towards self-healing of the deep emotional pain that brokenness brings. Therapy costs money and suits only a small part of the population.


Another perhaps more alarming fact that perplexes me is the ever widening gap of wealth distribution across the developed world. In 1800 the average person earned four times less than the highest earner. Today this is more like 15-20 times and growing. Follow the strands of these thoughts for a moment, look at recent riots in France, Germany and Sweden and a revolution could be on the cards within the next hundred years?


I will close with a couple of quotes that are helping me to deepen my thinking;


Socrates' (never) said – 'I can't hope to teach a man anything. All I can do is to hope to make him think.' Bruce Lee said, 'The most dangerous man in the world is the one who listens, observes and thinks.'


Bye for now


God bless


Karl

By Karl Ayling, Mar 7 2017 09:15PM


As I sat down to write this blog, I’m not at all sure what to call it. There are two strands of recent inspiration - the first, learning about the concept of Countertransference (and how it effects all of us in a variety of ways) and the second was a recommendation to watch Deeyah Khan’s TED Talk called; What We Don’t Know About Europe’s Muslim Kids.


So, I am going to combine my thoughts and musings into what I hope merges into a coherent whole, let’s see.


Starting with Countertransference; those of you who have read one or two of my blogs will know that I’m a Penticostal Evangelical Christian – my faith in Jesus has, over the last several years contributed to miraculous healing from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). My Twitter account calls me a survivor of CSA – Childhood Sexual Assault and an ex-addict.


What is perhaps less well known is that my book, Massive Power Massive Love was largely written from the inspiration contained in my trauma diary, kept during some 350 hours of psychotherapy & counselling over several years.


The marketing and media work that I have undertaken in the promotion of this book of Psalmic poetry has, over time, given me the confidence to consider re-training. So when an opportunity opened up recently to attend Chichester University to study Psychotherapy & Counselling - off I went.


As part of my studies, I've come across a book called 'Countertransference and the Treatment of Trauma' by Dr C J Dalenberg. Cross referencing this book with the research available on the subject at Wikipedia;


Countertransference - Wikipedia


I am starting to come to the conclusion that as human beings, our communication, innerspeak to ourselves, and our interaction with others, can and does become strongly influenced by our own traumas and our reactions to them mingled with the other persons experiences of traums and their reactions to them. Over time, we forget something important, something significant which happened to help mold us, that has us respond to stimuli in a certain way, sort of a locked-in automatic response.


I remain indebted to the counsellors who captured this element of myself and permitted me to steer towards wholeness and a set-change / revision of who I am to me that helped me to relate to others in a more wholesome, healed, warm and adult way.


Which brings me to Deeyah Khan’s TED Talk which you can see here;


Deeyah Khan: What we don't know about Europe's Muslim kids


As the child of an Afghan mother and Pakistani father raised in Norway, Deeyah Khan knows what it's like to ...


The reason for including this section in this blog is that upon watching the video I became intimately aware that my long held judgments, assessments and opinions indeed prejudices, were juvenile at best and really didn’t help to serve me as a communicator to describe what I feel about the obvious traumas that immigrants and refugees have endured in order to find a small part of a more peaceful nation in which to escape or settle.


The video explains the nuclear family traumas rent upon the younger generation by extreme control and manipulation by the largely patriarchal figures / parents / family which sends predominately young people and converts into the hands of extremists. Extremists who offer a listening ear, acceptance, camaraderie, a hope for self-e_xpression and eventually martyrdom - check out the video, I’m not really doing it justice here.


It touched me sufficiently to combine consideration of my own experiences of trauma with that of others and eventually to emerge with empathy for others, others who are perhaps alien to me, yet still human beings who have also suffered much and are seeking something else, something different from what went before them.


Resistance to change is futile – we all die in the end. It is what happens before then that we have a choice in.


A caring, sharing, loving sentient adult will not make the same choices as a traumatised person suffering the pain of unimaginable horrors. Healing from traumas takes time, it is a journey, ongoing throughout life. Some never start the journey. My hope is that some will start the inquiry into inner healing having seen this blog.


Bye for now


God bless


Karl

By Karl Ayling, Jan 14 2017 05:26PM


No not the fruit, technically a herb with a yellow skin, no the bananas to which I refer are those of the stupid variety.


Read on...


A short time ago, Iran's Supreme Leader Grand Ayatollah Ali Khamenei urged the Muslim World to boycott anything and everything that originates with the Jewish people.


In response, Meyer M. Treinkman, a pharmacist, out of the kindness of his heart, offered to assist them in their boycott as follows:


"Any Muslim who has Syphilis must not be cured by Salvarsan discovered by a Jew, Dr. Ehrlich. He should not even try to find out whether he has Syphilis, because the Wasserman Test is the discovery of a Jew. If a Muslim suspects that he has Gonorrhea, he must not seek diagnosis, because he will be using the method of a Jew named Neissner.


"A Muslim who has heart disease must not use Digitalis, a discovery by a Jew, Ludwig Traube.


Should he suffer with a toothache, he must not use Novocaine, a discovery of the Jews, Widal and Weil.


If a Muslim has Diabetes, he must not use Insulin, the result of research by Minkowsky, a Jew. If one has a headache, he must shun Pyramidon and Antypyrin, due to the Jews, Spiro and Ellege.


Muslims with convulsions must put up with them because it was a Jew, Oscar Leibreich, who proposed the use of Chloral Hydrate.


Arabs must do likewise with their psychic ailments because Freud, father of psychoanalysis, was a Jew.


Should a Muslim child get Diphtheria, he must refrain from the Schick" reaction which was invented by the Jew, Bella Schick.


"Muslims should be ready to die in great numbers and must not permit treatment of ear and brain damage, work of Jewish Nobel Prize winner, Robert Baram.


They should continue to die or remain crippled by Infantile Paralysis because the discoverer of the anti-polio vaccine is a Jew, Jonas Salk.


"Muslims must refuse to use Streptomycin and continue to die of Tuberculosis because a Jew, Zalman Waxman, invented the wonder drug against this killing disease.


Muslim doctors must discard all discoveries and improvements by dermatologist Judas Sehn Benedict, or the lung specialist, Frawnkel, and of many other world renowned Jewish scientists and medical experts.


"In short, good and loyal Muslims properly and fittingly should remain afflicted with Syphilis, Gonorrhea, Heart Disease, Headaches, Typhus, Diabetes, Mental Disorders, Polio Convulsions and Tuberculosis and be proud to obey the Islamic boycott."


Oh, and by the way, don't call for a doctor on your cell phone because the cell phone was invented in Israel by a Jewish engineer.


Meanwhile I ask, what medical contributions to the world have the Muslims made?"


The Global Islamic population is approximately 1,200,000,000; that is ONE BILLION TWO HUNDRED MILLION or 20% of the world's population.


They have received the following Nobel Prizes:


Literature:


1988 - Najib Mahfooz


Peace:


1978 - Mohamed Anwar El-Sadat


1990 - Elias James Corey


1994 - Yaser Arafat:


1999 - Ahmed Zewai


Economics:


(zero)


Physics:


(zero)


Medicine:


1960 - Peter Brian Medawar


1998 - Ferid Mourad


TOTAL: 7 SEVEN


The Global Jewish population is approximately 14,000,000; that is FOURTEEN MILLION or about 0.02% of the world's population.


They have received the following Nobel Prizes:


Literature:


1910 - Paul Heyse


1927 - Henri Bergson


1958 - Boris Pasternak


1966 - Shmuel Yosef Agnon


1966 - Nelly Sachs


1976 - Saul Bellow


1978 - Isaac Bashevis Singer


1981 - Elias Canetti


1987 - Joseph Brodsky


1991 - Nadine Gordimer World


Peace:


1911 - Alfred Fried


1911 - Tobias Michael Carel Asser


1968 - Rene Cassin


1973 - Henry Kissinger


1978 - Menachem Begin


1986 - Elie Wiesel


1994 - Shimon Peres


1994 - Yitzhak Rabin


Physics:


1905 - Adolph Von Baeyer


1906 - Henri Moissan


1907 - Albert Abraham Michelson


1908 - Gabriel Lippmann


1910 - Otto Wallach


1915 - Richard Willstaetter


1918 - Fritz Haber


1921 - Albert Einstein


1922 - Niels Bohr


1925 - James Franck


1925 - Gustav Hertz


1943 - Gustav Stern


1943 - George Charles de Hevesy


1944 - Isidor Issac Rabi


1952 - Felix Bloch


1954 - Max Born


1958 - Igor Tamm


1959 - Emilio Segre


1960 - Donald A. Glaser


1961 - Robert Hofstadter


1961 - Melvin Calvin


1962 - Lev Davidovich Landau


1962 - Max Ferdinand Perutz


1965 - Richard Phillips Feynman


1965 - Julian Schwinger


1969 - Murray Gell-Mann


1971 - Dennis Gabor


1972 - William Howard Stein


1973 - Brian David Josephson


1975 - Benjamin Mottleson


1976 - Burton Richter


1977 - Ilya Prigogine


1978 - Arno Allan Penzias


1978 - Peter L Kapitza


1979 - Stephen Weinberg


1979 - Sheldon Glashow


1979 - Herbert Charles Brown


1980 - Paul Berg


1980 - Walter Gilbert


1981 - Roald Hoffmann


1982 - Aaron Klug


1985 - Albert A. Hauptman


1985 - Jerome Karle


1986 - Dudley R. Herschbach


1988 - Robert Huber


1988 - Leon Lederman


1988 - Melvin Schwartz


1988 - Jack Steinberger


1989 - Sidney Altman


1990 - Jerome Friedman


1992 - Rudolph Marcus


1995 - Martin Perl


2000 - Alan J. Heeger


Economics:


1970 - Paul Anthony Samuelson


1971 - Simon Kuznets


1972 - Kenneth Joseph Arrow


1975 - Leonid Kantorovich


1976 - Milton Friedman


1978 - Herbert A. Simon


1980 - Lawrence Robert Klein


1985 - Franco Modigliani


1987 - Robert M. Solow


1990 - Harry Markowitz


1990 - Merton Miller


1992 - Gary Becker


1993 - Robert Fogel


Medicine:


1908 - Elie Metchnikoff


1908 - Paul Erlich


1914 - Robert Barany


1922 - Otto Meyerhof


1930 - Karl Landsteiner


1931 - Otto Warburg


1936 - Otto Loewi


1944 - Joseph Erlanger


1944 - Herbert Spencer Gasser


1945 - Ernst Boris Chain


1946 - Hermann Joseph Muller


1950 - Tadeus Reichstein


1952 - Selman Abraham Waksman


1953 - Hans Krebs


1953 - Fritz Albert Lipmann


1958 - Joshua Lederberg


1959 - Arthur Kornberg


1964 - Konrad Bloch


1965 - Francois Jacob


1965 - Andre Lwoff


1967 - George Wald


1968 - Marshall W. Nirenberg


1969 - Salvador Luria


1970 - Julius Axelrod


1970 - Sir Bernard Katz


1972 - Gerald Maurice Edelman


1975 - Howard Martin Temin


1976 - Baruch S. Blumberg


1977 - Roselyn Sussman Yalow


1978 - Daniel Nathans


1980 - Baruj Benacerraf


1984 - Cesar Milstein


1985 - Michael Stuart Brown


1985 - Joseph L. Goldstein


1986 - Stanley Cohen [& Rita Levi-Montalcini]


1988 - Gertrude Elion


1989 - Harold Varmus


1991 - Erwin Neher


1991 - Bert Sakmann


1993 - Richard J. Roberts


1993 - Phillip Sharp


1994 - Alfred Gilman


1995 - Edward B. Lewis


1996- Lu RoseIacovino


TOTAL: 129!


The Jews are NOT promoting brainwashing children in military training camps, teaching them how to blow themselves up and cause maximum deaths of Jews and other non-Muslims.


The Jews don't hijack planes, nor kill athletes at the Olympics, or blow themselves up in German restaurants.


There is NOT one single Jew who has destroyed a church.


There is NOT a single Jew who protests by killing people. The Jews don't traffic slaves, there are over 3,000,000 Christian slaves in Pakistan today, nor have leaders calling for Jihad and death to all the Infidels.


Perhaps the world's Muslims should consider investing more in standard education and less in blaming the Jews for all their problems.


Muslims must ask 'what can they do for humankind' before they demand that humankind respects them.


Regardless of your feelings about the crisis between Israel and the Palestinians and Arab neighbours, even if you believe there is more culpability on Israel 's part, the following two sentences really say it all:


'If the Arabs put down their weapons today, there would be no more violence. If the Jews put down their weapons today, there would be no more Israel."


Benjamin Netanyahu: General Eisenhower warned us. It is a matter of history that when the Supreme Commander of the Allied Forces, General Dwight Eisenhower, found the victims of the death camps he ordered all possible photographs to be taken, and for the German people from surrounding villages to be ushered through the camps and even made to bury the dead.


He did this because he said in words to this effect: 'Get it all on record now - get the films - get the witnesses - because somewhere down the road of history some bastard will get up and say that this never happened'


Recently, the UK debated whether to remove The Holocaust from its school curriculum because it 'offends' the Muslim population which claims it never occurred.


It is not removed as yet. However, this is a frightening portent of the fear that is gripping the world and how easily each country is giving in to it.


It is now more than 70 years after the Second World War in Europe ended.


Now, more than ever, with Iran, among others, claiming the Holocaust to be 'a myth,' it is imperative to make sure the world never forgets.


This like my other blogs is intended to challenge and inform and reach as many people as possible.


How many years will it be before the attack on the World Trade Center 'NEVER HAPPENED' because it offends some Muslim in the United States?


Thanks to Paul Shafe for the main text


Bye for now


God bless


Karl

By Karl Ayling, Nov 24 2016 01:06PM


Neuroscience and antenatal communication has come to a greater prominence since the death in 1990 of the British psychiatrist John Bowlby.


In a series of books Bowlby developed his hypothesis of attachment and loss that were much derided by his profession until after his death.


His work contradicted the prevailing theories popular at the time by positing revolutionary ways of understanding the communication of infants and the nature of attachment bonding between them and their caregivers, usually the mother.


In a study involving 684 families in Caracus, Venezuela, Dr Beatriz Manrique conducted a controlled experiment - with the results published in Journal of Prenatal and Perinatal Psychology and Health1998; showing that when parents are taught a variety of ways to communicate with their preborn children, ideally from conception, the outcomes were that, physical, intellectual and emotional development is positively enhanced.


http://www.spiritualbirth.net/prenatal-communication-with-your-baby


Bowlbys work with 15 -30 month old children who were separated for the first time from their mothers, showed he observed as a three phase behavioural display: protest, despair, and detachment. He concluded from these observations that the primary function of protest was to generate displays that would lead to the return of the absent caregiver. More about this can be found in an interview with Dr D Sonkin, here:


https://neuronarrative.wordpress.com/2009/01/12/attachment-theory-and-the-brain-an-interview-with-dr-daniel-sonkin/


You may remember in the late 1980's after the fall of the Berlin wall and the fall of the Union of Soviet Socialist Republics - there was news coming out of Romanian orphanages, reaching the UK and the West that indicated that without attachment bonding with a caregiver and in fact without 'touch' many of the orphans expired by the age of three.


Mammals communicate in many ways. I have two dogs and although they cannot speak, they can and do, communicate with me and each other in a wide variety of non-verbal ways. The gaze of the eyes, vocal intonation, words, touch and exaggerated body language are all picked up by the dogs and (mostly) acted upon. It is one of the highlights of a winter evenings walk to see (hear) them bounding around the fields around where I live, in pitch darkness, exclaiming all kinds of squeaks, yelps, barks and body language as they play fight with one another.


For around 15 or 20 years I have been aware of the statistic, widely known, that only 7% of human communication is verbal with 93% non-verbal. A certain amount of emotional intelligence and awareness can elicit understanding with yet more clarity of non-verbal communication being revealed by studying others closely and observing what you 'hear'.


Understanding more about the long term impact that communication has on unborn and new born children can help us all to be more sensitive and aware of the impact that negative implicit and explicit communication has on any human being later on in life.


The size of the mental health bill on the NHS is astonishing. The provision of services is stretched at best and a total postcode lottery at worst. As I read more about this topic and the research that is going on, I hope to learn better ways to communicate with others and internally with myself. Once we realise the impact of the internal and external utterings we are better able to observe and engage with those around us and enhance their journey as well as our own.


Bye for now


God bless


Karl

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